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As usual, I've got a plethora of things to discuss... and only one LiveJournal entry I want to discuss them all in.  I'll start with some good news, though.  As many of you already know, the Appleseed movie is on its way to theaters next month.  I was recently contacted by a kind gentleman from Soulkool... a New York-based company that created the official Appleseed Web site, and also does publicity work for Appleseed and possibly other state-side anime releases through Geneon Animation.  The sites they do are amazing.  I'm not aware of how I was discovered online, though I suspect it was through LiveJournal... but I was quite flattered to be contacted by a representative from Soulkool, at any rate.  After talking to him on the phone, we agreed that I would do promotional work in San Francisco for the movie launch.  So... if you see Appleseed flyers and general branding throughout Japantown, the Metreon, San Francisco State University (especially at AnimeFX), and many other centralized locations throughout San Francisco and Daly City... well, odds are that they had something to do with me.  I'll be busy next month.  :)

Since I want to do a really good job of helping to promote the movie, and this has been way too long overdue anyway... our next LiveJournal party will almost definitely be to go Appleseed upon it's North America theatrical launch.  This seems like a good time of the year to do it... some people are on break from school, and there isn't too much going on at this time of the year except for post-Christmas sales.  We might need to buy tickets in advance, and we may not be able to do Karaoke afterwards if the movie's showing too late at night... but one way or another, we'll figure it out.  As always, I'll try to organize something DDR-related... and bring us some food and drink.  Additional details on the party will be posted as they're determined, behind an LJ-cut for those of you who live too far away to possibly attend.

On a much more personal note, I've been going through an especially difficult emotional time lately.  To make a long story short, I've been close to crying a little when people ask me when my girlfriend will be coming out here to live with me... because I honestly don't know.  I don't even know how she's been doing lately.  While some people are being really supportive, and just keep encouraging me to hang in there and be strong for the both of us... I also get a lot of advice that falls contrary to that, and it's beginning to take its toll on me.  I'm a patient person.  I waited months for the most basic of things in this relationship, time and again... but now I'm at the finish line, and I feel like the line's moving away from me as I approach it.  I've offered everything of myself, every moment of my time and everything I've got... but nothing appears to be enough.  Right now, it's really just a matter of how much longer I can hold on to the memories her and I have made... memories that were better than any moment in any part of my entire life.  Knowing what it feels like to be so happy, then being denied it for months... it's nearly too much for me to bare.

All of you have been wonderful people to me, with the exception of some of you who have (rightly so) challenged me about this situation.  There's nothing easy about not being able to answer basic questions about a girl I speak of as my current exclusive relationship.  What I do know, because I feel it in every inch of every part of my body, is that her and I are completely in love with eachother.  What I don't know is if she'll have to choose me over her career, and thus give up her dreams... or if she'll have to choose her career over me, and break both of our hearts.  It shouldn't be this way, and I'm working to help give us both a better option... but in the meanwhile, I feel so adrift and alone.

I'm embarrassed to admit this, but one night I quite literally curled up into a ball on my couch... shuddering with fear and undirected rage at why things couldn't simply be normal and okay, after all the work I'd done to make my relationship perfect and enduring.  I've never been so afraid of anything in my entire life as I was of my relationship crumbling, and the thought of losing her.  That was quite definitely the worst night of my entire life.  Good things have come of this... I quit smoking, I'm taking better care of myself, I'm making choices that benefit my future.  Bad things have come of it, too... I've hurt a number of women who were very close to me, simply because I speak of my love for someone they've never seen and heard little of.  I feel censored... withdrawn.  I can feel my spontaneity slipping away, and can feel that I have no choice... it's the way it has to be.  I can't keep doing stupid little things that might prevent my future from going smoothly... and thus I spend more time being generally more bored, and thinking about a girl that I love... but haven't seen in so long.

I'm going to need the help of my friends to get through this.  I can't do this alone any more... it's tearing at my heart, grating it away like little strips of perfect memories.  I can't pretend that nothing's wrong in company, yet break down in solitude.  Something needs to give... something needs to work.  I've bent as far as I can go... and I fear that if I don't hold firm any longer, I'll break in two, and be worthless to everyone.  I can't stand crying as I write of this any more, as I am now.  There's so much love bottled up in my heart... and I feel as if someone hammered a cork in so tightly that I'll have to be broken to let it out again.  Amazingly... if I had ever imagined such pain coming from this relationship, I still would do it all over again just this way.

I can't imagine a life without her... not any more.  I've had a taste of what my life could be, and I give my word that I will never go back again if I have a choice left in my heart... and breath left in my body.  It hurts me to smile, and torments me to cry.  My love hasn't got much time left.

I guess I'll finish off this post with 100 true things that you might not know about me... and more song lyrics that she'll know I wrote for her.Collapse )

So... as this is already my longest LiveJournal post evAr, I'll wrap this up with two words... Merry and Christmas.  I'd also like to take a minute to wish my very special friend Chandra (spooky_chan) a happy birthday today.  May all of you have a very happy holiday season.  I'll try to write you all again before the year's out.  As always, it means a great deal to me that some of you have taken the time to read all of this.  To quote the poetry that Sarah McLachlan writes as lyrics, "your words keep me alive..."

One more thing... my friend Fonzi (white_rose_oni) is throwing a party in about a week!  Click here for details.  The entry is currently locked, but I've asked him to unlock it.  If he doesn't, bug him for me.  He asked me to post this for him.  Oh, and Lindsay is still looking for a digital inker to assist her with the second Peach Fuzz.  Please help her out by checking out the link, and reposting this link in your journal if you have talented artist friends.  It would really mean a lot to me.  :)

- Chris (cK1)

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ex_alexxxand731
Dec. 25th, 2004 08:42 pm (UTC)
two things:

1. Corruption comes in all political party affiliations
2. ResEdit... oh damn. That brings back a few memories. haha. A name I hadn't heard or read in years.
starisee
Dec. 25th, 2004 08:44 pm (UTC)
Merry christmas to you too firstly!

I don't know the entire story with you and your girlfriend, but whatever happens, I hope you both are happy.

I admired your 100 true things (even though two were blank???) and I appreciate you more as a person for posting it and showing your self-confidence and honesty in it. *bows*
miyavi_type
Dec. 25th, 2004 09:02 pm (UTC)
I want to publicly apologize for my actions. Sorry... I'll just have to crawl back into my dark deep hole away from civilization, where I should belong.
(Grrrr... must think positive thoughts...Must think!!!)

And a white boy that can dance... Phttt!!! That's an urban legend :P
ddrmallrat
Dec. 25th, 2004 09:05 pm (UTC)
Whoo hoo!
First off, I want to say that that post (mostly the 100 things part) was one of the most satisfying entries I think I've ever read. Some of those things I definitly knew about you, and some I would never have guessed. I think you and I are similar in many ways, as well.
Also, hooray for quitting smoking! I still don't really smoke, maybe an average of like...2 or 3 a month? But I'd still kill to get a clove out here:-p
Anyway, the biggest most important thing is IM CONING BACK TO THE BAY!!! Well, for the next 2 weeks at least. Especially after reading this and remembering all the awesome times, I'd better see you. I'll make sure to give you a call when I get there.
And of course, Merry Christmas and Happy New Years!!!
myrthrilmercury
Dec. 25th, 2004 09:39 pm (UTC)
I don't know what to tell you, so rather than screw things up, which I seem to be good at lately, I'll keep my mouth shut. Just know that you can always talk to me. I'm not in the dorm until the 9th, but feel free to e-mail me if you want to.

One thing I will say, though, is that it doesn't matter to me who is and isn't in your life. You're still important to me, no matter what. Once I'm back at school and things settle down a bit, I'll give you a call. How does that sound?
myrthrilmercury
Dec. 25th, 2004 09:54 pm (UTC)
Almost forgot...
Thank you for opening up like that. I wish I could be more like you in many of those regards.
sleepfighter
Dec. 25th, 2004 09:51 pm (UTC)
That's good, the resolve bit I mean...eeep, I just remberd that I was suposed to hang out with you at some point...maybe I should get your number from someone...might help.
squall_dincht
Dec. 25th, 2004 09:57 pm (UTC)
Merry Christmas!! xD and a happy New Years~! xDD *nods** xD and that was a very ShHhhiIiNnNy post to readdd... I swear it didnt take me a billion years ^^;;; I read oh so slowly x(. But anyhowwwwwww hope everything goes well with your girlfriend situtation *hugg* and yes yes *pokee* Chris gets mistaken for girls =oo *pokes you hair** =))) your hair is so shiny thoughhhhh =) xD *chuckle** and I wanna go to lj party =o =o the one i went to was so shiny xD and also you work close to me!! I should go to your work one dayyy maybe with anthony bwuhaha =)) xD so you should tell me when you usually workk xDD heheh anywayyyyyy bye bye~!
lilrivkah
Dec. 25th, 2004 10:13 pm (UTC)
Wow. That was an interesting read, and I normally overlook lists; you're a fascinating person! O_O
zell_dincht
Dec. 25th, 2004 10:23 pm (UTC)
A response to #32...

I don't see why people would even think about reconsidering their friendship with you after reading all of that. If what you said is true, that means they aren't as accepting of you as you think they are.

However, you know how I am. I can easily accept people for what they are, who they are, etc. You were one of the few people I have accepted for from the moment I saw you and I was glad that I did.

Remember that your little bro is always here for you, and you can talk to me about absolutely anything.

I hope I can be by your side right now and just give you a hug. I'm sure you need it. I've been quite afraid almost like you have been. I'm sorry this is happening to you because you definitely do not deserve it.

Also remember this. I love you. You've been one of the few people that have actually been there for me in times of my own crisis. Take care...
tirachan
Dec. 25th, 2004 10:43 pm (UTC)
I doubt I could come up with 100 *interesting* things about myself, lol~ And definitely not ones regarding teh secks ^^; I doubt I'd want someone readin about that, even tho I doubt I even have... a quarter, or a fifth of the people watchin my journal as you do~! (hell, maybe a tenth?) ^^;
el_olvidado
Dec. 25th, 2004 11:12 pm (UTC)
hey chris,
haven't forgot you...
hopefully you haven't forgotten me.
hang in there.

peace...
j!
celtic4
Dec. 25th, 2004 11:45 pm (UTC)
*hugs* Chris, I hope you feel better soon. You're a strong guy--have faith in yourself and the ones you love. Doubt is the most horrible and undermining thing--just let go a little and let things happen. You have tons of friends that love you and would do anything for you, so rest assured that we will be here for you no matter what happens.

The 100 things meme was really interesting to read--I'd do it myself, but I don't think I could think of 100 things about myself! XDDD

I hope you had a wonderful Christmas, dear, and a joyful and peaceful holiday season!
undeadlysilence
Dec. 26th, 2004 12:13 am (UTC)
#14 :x
psyjoe_dilandau
Dec. 26th, 2004 12:48 am (UTC)
Read through the whole list, and all's I gotta say is: PIRATES OF DARK WATER!!! Yeah!
shimuka
Dec. 26th, 2004 12:58 am (UTC)
Ye gods, brother. That's a lot of reading.

I'm glad to have learned more about you - I think I should get around to writing an entry like this soon. Also, that part about the wasabi is disgusting. Never do that in my presence. :P

We HAVE to go to Curry House together sometime. Not only are they my favorite curry restauraunt, THEY ARE THE ONLY PLACE I GO TO THAT HAS KIRIN ON TAP.

I LOVED Appleseed - being my favorite manga, I was expecting a great deal out of this film and I'm glad it turned out so well, particularly the way they ended it since the manga left so much crap unexplained.

Anyway - it's good to hear from you. I'm sorry to hear you're having a rough time of things, but hang in there - I'll keep you in my thoughts. Take care of yourself, and I hope to see you soon.
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